Roses are red violets are blue... if you are fun and exciting I'll get back to you :) salom8 Clapham 29 Jul 2008 at 6:02PM I think of myself as feminine and gentle... love being a woman. I am fun to be with, confident and can hold an intelligent conversation. I like to socialise and also enjoy quiet times. I enjoy dancing, going to theatre or just for a walk...especially at night (love that big old moon) just as happy to stay in... love to cook and enjoy stimulating conversation just as much as light hearted fun. Also like to paint (walls, canvas, boxes and even my partner once) travel is high on my list, especially being out in nature. I am attracted to confidence, intelligence, kindness and sincerity. I think a good sense of humour is important... believe you can't take life too seriously. In terms of looks, I think they are biological imparitives, but have no particular agenda, at the end of the day I think it boils down to chemistry... that said, I don't think that chemistry comes in a particular package - certainly not one I could define in an email... I am looking for a man who takes life by the horns... shouldn't think he is too important to build sand castles, have a pillow fight, dress up as a fantastical character or cry over a sad movie... I am very attracted to people with depth of character... and I love eyes... the twinkly sort... no small order I know...:) Definately not looking for cheap thrills and one night stands - (unless of course George Clooney is reading this... then George... for you I'll bend the rules... but just this once)